Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts

Friday, December 28, 2012

Who is Santa Claus?


I have observed that children as young as five years old, in today’s society, have come to terms that Santa Claus is bogus.  Compared to back in the day when children would embrace  Santa Claus as a real being for as long as possible, especially in places such as the Caribbean where there was no fireplace or chimney for this gift-toting man to slide down with his luggage.  Neither was there snow or a sleigh being drawn by reindeer.  Below is an unedited special op-ed essay on this topic by my seven year old grandson, Shadrack Sims of Buffalo, New York.
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Shadrack A. Sims
December 26, 2012
Who is Santa Claus?


Santa Claus is known as St. Nickolas, Father Christmas and simply Santa. He was known for bringing gifts to the homes of good and poor children during the late evening and overnight hours on Christmas Eve, December 24th. Santa Claus is mainly seen as a joyous, white bearded man sometimes with glasses wearing a red coat with a white collar and sleeves. He also wore red pants with black belt and boots.

Due to old time beliefs from the 1820s, Santa Claus is said to have lived in the North Pole with many elves and nine flying reindeer. There is a song from the 1934 "Santa Claus is Coming to Town" where Santa is said to make a list of children from all over the world and put them in order of naughty or nice. He gives toys and candy to the nice kids and coals to the naughty kids. His elves help to make toys for children and his reindeers helps delivers the toys. The names of his reindeers are Blitzen, Vixen, Prancer, Comet, Cupid and Donner.

Parents lie to children to re-live their childhood dreams of St. Nick by telling children to be good throughout the year and they would be rewarded with gifts from jolly old Santa. They have kids make up a list from TV commercials that show them toys and other gifts that they would want during Christmas. Some kids become very uncertain of whom Santa Claus is and starts to ask questions about him such as how could he possibly travel around the world in such a short time going down chimneys to give gifts. Instead of parents telling kids the truth they tell kids stories about Santa’s weird powers.

Santa Claus is like God, because he punishes you if you are not nice and rewards you if you are good. The idea of Santa Claus has become a big business and very money-oriented and has little to no natural value.

Finally, St. Nick or Santa Claus as he’s known is a good Bishop who now instead of keeping his identity as a Christian Bishop and Saint is now appearing in magazines, on billboards and in stores encouraging consumer products and commercial success.

I hear that Santa Claus is friendly to kids who are nice and if you see him call me and describe how he acts when you see him in person especially when you visit the North Pole.

Merry Christmas!



 Tah-tah!  Treat our children well.  They are the future.

Grace Dunkley-Asphall, Copyright © 2012


Sunday, February 5, 2012

How should Christmas be defined?


Some people refer to their good luck moment as Christmas.  Others will say that every day is Christmas to them when good health prevails.  Receiving an unexpected gift is also referred to as Christmas among some of us.
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Birthdays, Anniversaries, Valentine’s Day, A job well-done, and Christmas are just few of the occasions when people are favored with gifts.  However, when it comes down to nitty-gritty it would appear as if Christmas is the most pronounced of all the occasions.

December 25th is the actual day for Christmas and I have learnt long ago that Christians celebrate this day wholeheartedly because it is the birthday of Jesus, their redeemer.  The festive air which comes with Christmas can be seen and felt from in the month of November each year.  Consumers and retailers alike haggle over Christmas because it is known as the feel good season.  Some people splurge in their spending and it is also a time when eating, drinking and giving gifts become common place among even the greatest nemesis.    

According to the Christians, Jesus’ birth is the reason for the season yet among all the merry making controversy finds its place in the midst.  The concerns which feed the line of controversy are vast.  Here are a few:  What is Christmas? What is the true birthday of Jesus?  How could Mary be a virgin while being pregnant?  Was Joseph really Jesus’ father?   On this note I choose not to interfere with the teachings of old because the slightest attempt to do so would probably stir an upheaval which would then prompt me to call on the gospel brothers Matthew, Mark, Luke and John to come to my rescue.  Not to mention the overly confident Goliath who would be waiting in the wings.

The topic Christmas churns relentlessly notwithstanding the fact that I hold true the tiny verse which I had learnt during childhood:  Christmas comes but once a year and when it comes it brings good cheer.  Changes come and go and in my adult life I have noticed that the Christmas cheer comes at a high cost, mentally, physically and financially.  Spending beyond means to please others can be detrimental so Christmas 2011 I budgeted; I decided not to buy any gifts.  This sounds horrible especially considering that I have grandchildren.  Nonetheless, I kept my word and came up with a plan that would still keep a tiny amount of the Christmas cheer alive.

.  That plan was in the form of an essay competition among the children of some of my Brooklyn neighborhood people now turned family friends.  A fabulous incentive was affixed to this competition.  It was also necessary to ward off biased behavior by the judges.  Therefore numbers were used on the competitors’ works instead of their names.  The topic of the essay was “What does Christmas Mean to me”.   I took into consideration the controversy and gifting that surrounds Christmas and felt that a child’s opinion would be most welcome.  Children have their own thoughts and spin on things.  I am particularly impressed when their ability to censor is not fully ripened.   Below you will find two essays in their unadulterated form and which made it to the top.  The first place went to 12 year old Jenai and the second place to 9 year old Dasani.

 
Tah-tah!   

Heed your mistakes but most importantly don’t forget the lessons learnt.



Grace Dunkley-Asphall Copyright © 2012







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